Hey folks so here's how my story ended....so I live in a maintenance free community..they take care of the grass and shrubs. ..been doing it for years....Come to find out they switched to a new lawn treatment product...first time trying it..A novice guy applied it on a windy day. It killed any ornamental flower it touched. ..boy you should see the damage that his careless application did!!! My flowers survived.. (the company bought me some new lillies to add to my garden )...my neighbors flowers were killed ...and they had a lot!!!!.....mystery solved...thanks to all of u who weighed in on my situation!!!!!