I have lots of Lamium, that is what you meant about dead nettle right? I'm thinking its a malva I found some last year and took it to a horticulturist but that was way out front. This is pretty far away from where the others I found were at. I don't know. Guess I'll wait to see how it blooms. or Maybe just leave it till I can get ahold of Melinda again. She should be back in out area in a week or so. Thanks any how. I'm thinking a bird planted it for me, but , it would have been nice if it had been giver permission.