I said what I said because I remembered many years ago someone posted about this same fungi on another forum. That is why I put the link with the name of what I believed it to be and did not type the actual name
Lin, I am so sorry that people treated you like that. I have been on the receiving end of that and it is not a good feeling. I have to remember here that people don't know me and I might say something that unintentionally offends. It doesn't matter how long you have been on forums, it is still difficult to interpret what feeling is behind what they are typing