Welcome to IrisRus, DDD. While waiting for spring bloom season we manage to get through long winters by sharing iris stories, photos and encouragement from other members and new members are always welcome. I have never heard of a divorce over irises, however, I have heard about them being held 'hostage' in a divorce and being a contributing factor in another. That is rare and most of the time the spouse of an iris lover learns to either capitulate or join the fray to some degree. What types/class do you grow?