Aha! Ron, thank you so much for this info...this is so enlightening and it makes perfect sense to me. Please, may I quote you but leave your name out?
It just so happens that about an hour ago before my post, I read the link you referred above and starred it on my favorites bar. But the article did not address the male/female issue and that is why I begged for your enlightenment.
So very grateful to you for sharing your knowledge!
Kadie