Thanks everyone for all the input. Still haven't figured out which neighbor it is. Have done some talking with the neighbors I do know. Most said don't worry about it but they think they know who the guy is that is causing all sorts of trouble in the neighborhood.
We have decided that next year we are not doing the castle walk through. Gonna change the entire front yard display. We will however ramp up the cemetery with more Animatronics, Making plans for a toddler pumpkin patch walk through with lots of pumpkins, blow molds and friendly stuff. In the last year our section of the neighborhood has had a baby boom. I know of eight new babies just in the last 3 months on our block. We are working on plans for a different set up for the older kids and adults that come ever year.