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Jan 27, 2022 8:45 PM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
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Loss never seems to lessen or get smaller, we just get used to going on despite this gaping hole in our lives. The thing that comforts me most about losing my dad is knowing that his first choice for months has been to be with Mom. I know you're "living your best life" as well as you can, and I know Larry is cheering you on.

Home improvement will be good to get done but also difficult every time you want to say, hey Larry, come see how great this looks! Sorry the boys aren't interested in the actual family heirlooms rather than in the proceeds from their sale. Thumbs down Being done with it sounds like a good goal!

Are you taking 4-H stuff to the Coolidge Center, or was that a non-sequitur? Regardless, hope you find a travel companion who becomes a good friend, at the least!
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Jan 28, 2022 6:24 AM CST
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At one point, Larry had the largest privately held collection of Calvin Coolidge memorabilia. After publishing his book The 1924 Coolidge-Dawes Lincoln Tour back in 2007 he began selling off his collection. Over the years, he helped the Coolidge Foundation procure important Coolidge items for display at the center in Plymouth Notch, VT.

He held back several items from being sold. One of which is the original scrapbook that the book was based on. It was his desire that the book end up at the Coolidge Foundation. I've been trying for the last few years to honor is wish. We all know how that has worked out.

The Coolidge Center does have a new location in DC that was supposed to open in 2019. But, due to the pandemic, remains closed.

Speaking of the book... I still have a few hundred copies in storage. Larry had to purchase a set amount from the publisher when it was printed. The hope was that we could sell them through the antique malls and web sites. That didn't work out as planned thanks to sites like Amazon that were able to get the book at a ridiculously low price from the publisher. They got a better deal than the author!

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Jan 28, 2022 11:26 AM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
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I did not remember about his Coolidge collection!

Unless you're waiting for it to be unavailable from Amazon. you might see if the center will take them for the gift shop at a low low price. Something for them is better than nothing, and you get the space back.

Did Larry sign the copies? That would increase their value, perhaps especially to museum visitors.
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Jan 28, 2022 1:03 PM CST
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I checked with them early on. We had taken several cases up right after it came out. They still have quite a few.

Sadly, no, he didn't sign them. Even when we had them at the political collectible shows, he din't sign unless asked.

I suppose I could sign them as the graphic artist, but it wouldn't add to the value. (Even though I spend as much time on image construction and layout as he did with the writing!) Actually, that book was how we justified getting a color laser printer. Having rough drafts printed at Kinko's (before they were FedEx Office) was getting expensive. We figured 2 copies there paid for the printer. That sucker got a workout, too.

Some of the images, like the pennant and truck on the front cover took hours to do. I had to scan the pennant in 3 separate pieces then stitch them together and do color matching. That was fun. (not).

The picture on the side of the truck was badly faded from all of the travelling. People think colorizing is work. Grey scale is just as hard to recreate. Then again, if I had the tools all of those years ago that are available now, it would have been a breeze.

There is an image on page 79 of a large poster done in red and black. Keep in mind that the poster, at this point, was 75 years old. The original poster was in pretty bad shape. Once I was able to scan the various pieces. I had to reassemble and color match. Once that was done, I had to recreate the missing pieces. I effectively had to do a complete digital reconstruction of the poster. I was really proud of that when it was done. Larry was, too.
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I still have all of the original files, from writing drafts, image scans and the whole publication at various stages.
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Jan 28, 2022 2:39 PM CST
Name: Sally
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People, including me, have no idea how much work is involved in that.
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Jan 29, 2022 4:06 PM CST
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wow that is very impressive! good for Larry, and good for you for continuing with his dream!
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Jan 31, 2022 12:33 PM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
Frederick, MD (Zone 6b)
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Digital images can be every bit as much work as old-fashioned darkroom processing! Impressive job on both cover and poster. You should print and frame that poster, if you have any place to display it.
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Jan 31, 2022 12:55 PM CST
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RickM said:I've rented a van to get stuff down there on Sunday. I pick it up tomorrow evening.

There will be a number of out-of-town visitors using the center on Sunday, but they will mark of the sidewalk so we can do our thing.

When you get there, park in the handicap spaces on the other side of the brick wall.

Also, they have asked that the marker not be put down yet as they want to display it inside during the program. It will then be moved outside to the garden.

Thanks again to everyone participating. I can't begin to say what this means to me and I'm sure Larry will be smiling!


I can't come to help, sadly, but I hope the garden planting goes well and I'm sure it'll look great! I'm so sorry for your loss Sad
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Jan 31, 2022 2:48 PM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
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Not to worry, the garden planting was a great success! Unfortunately, 4-H is selling the center, don't think we've had any word yet on relocation. Hope Rick gets a chance to retrieve Larry's rhododendron.

Sure hope we'll be able to gather in person for a plant swap this spring!
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Jan 31, 2022 5:21 PM CST
Name: Lisa Olson
Washington DC (Zone 7a)
Hey I'm happy to dig up Larry's rhododendrons from 4H garden and bring to swap. So do I need a nod from 4H? Or do it by stealth?
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Jan 31, 2022 6:19 PM CST
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Thanks all.

I was able to get down there last fall and dig everything up. It's now sitting around my place waiting for a new home.

The center has been sold, but no word yet on a new, permanent home. It will be in this area though. Once a new location has been determined, I've already planted the seed, so to speak, of creating a general memorial space that can be used a a place of solitude. Larry's marker and rhodie will go there.
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Jan 31, 2022 10:42 PM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
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Where was my brain?? You did mention getting down there to dig, but I wasn't in town at the time to help out.

I like the idea of a memory garden at the new 4H center! Everybody needs a peaceful green place to enjoy.
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Apr 23, 2022 5:19 AM CST
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Happy belated 84th birthday sweetie. I went to Longhorn for dinner last night to celebrate. I had your favorite steak (cooked to my taste, though) and a glass of Pinot Noir. While you weren't there physically, you were all I thought about. I miss you

Lyrics from a song by Justin Beiber (go figure!), et al, sum it up pretty well....


Youngblood thinks there's always tomorrow
I miss your touch on nights when I'm hollow
I know you crossed a bridge that I can't follow

Since the love that you left is all that I get
I want you to know that if I can't be close to you
I settle for the ghost of you
I miss you more than life (more than life)

And if you can't be next to me
Your memory is ecstasy
I miss you more than life
I miss you more than life

Youngblood thinks there's always tomorrow (woo)
I need more time but time can't be borrowed
I'd leave it all behind if I could follow

Since the love that you left is all that I get
I want you to know that if I can't be close to you
I'll settle for the ghost of you
I miss you more than life, yeah

And if you can't be next to me
Your memory is ecstasy (oh)
I miss you more than life
I miss you more than life


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Apr 23, 2022 4:23 PM CST
Name: Critter (Jill)
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Apr 23, 2022 9:23 PM CST
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Apr 24, 2022 5:50 AM CST
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I'm not sure many of us experience such love and devotion in our lives.
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I feel it when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."--Tennyson

How lucky for Larry to have found you, who took care of him, cooked the most delicious food for him. And how lucky for you to be able to give care and love, and cook for him----plus have fun together---What great memories---.
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Mar 28, 2023 7:56 PM CST
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Well, Thursday is my 65th birthday. If things had gone according to plan, Larry and I would be off somewhere in the world together. :sigh:

To add to my grief this time of year, I just found out that my brother Tom passed away yesterday. He would have been 79 on April 6. Crying
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Mar 29, 2023 12:03 AM CST
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Mar 29, 2023 1:46 AM CST
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