My kids help sporadically, but I am picky on how things are done, so I like to be out there at the same time, and our schedules don't always match. One time they cleaned up a bed and dug up and discarded all the alstromeria tubers - it was one of my prized clumps, great for cut flowers, and nary a one came back. Then my mom cut back my forsythia just as it was getting big enough for it to have flowering branches that I can bring in for the winter....... So, I just have to take my garden a section at a time and do it myself. If I make a mistake, I have only me to blame.