Oh,
@Sharon, we must be kindred spirits.
As a child, one of my chores was to weed our vegetable garden. That garden was an important source of food for our family because my father was a contractor and couldn't get much work during the winter months. I didn't mind the weeding chore as much as I did the housekeeping chores ... still true today.
My father loved okra, but I hated it and decided it was a weed. Since I decided that okra was a "weed", I diligently pulled up every bit he planted. My father could grow anything, but he could never understand why he couldn't grow okra. He planted it every year in different sections of the garden, but it never came up.
One day, I got caught with a bucket full of okra "weeds" in my weed bucket. My father stood there looking at me and at my bucket and I stood there looking up at him expecting to be truly punished. After a long, long silence he quietly said to me, "If you don't pull up my okra, I promise I won't let your mother make you eat it."
I asked him, "You won't let her sneak it into soups either ?"
His answer was, "No. You will never have to eat okra again."
After that, I tended his okra better than any other vegetable in the garden.
I still don't like okra.
Smiles,
Lyn