Oh, Zoe, you are saying exactly what I feel. Such a major shift in gardening methods is a real wrench. Even the sun is different here. There is no smog, so when you are outside any time the sun is out, it is so intense it can be blinding. Definitely not Bakersfield, which has the second worst air in the nation.
I have always been a country girl at heart, give me dirt over concrete any time. But one of my biggest challenges has been the wildlife. I expected the deer, but this particular variety, Columbia Black Tail, try to go UNDER fences as much as over. It involves a whole different type of reinforcing. There are mice, rats, pack rats, moles, ground squirrels, Douglas' squirrels, grey squirrels, opossums, skunks, jackrabbits, brush bunnies, turkeys, Steller's jays, and elk. All of which want to mess with my plants and either eat them or dig them up. Not to mention the insects, which there are more of than I have ever seen. Inch long ants. Bleah. The photo on my profile is of two teenage boy elk that came with their family of about fifteen to check out my Japanese maples. Reached right over the fence that the deer respect. Luckily they listened when I told them to go away. No bear problems so far, though I saw one not far away.
I know what you mean about differences. At home I just put things in the ground, and as long as I remembered to water them, with a few exceptions, they would grow. Roses, Iris, tomatoes, just about anything you could want. Here, it is too cold. Then too hot, then too dry, then too wet. Then covered with snow for a week or two. Then someone takes it away completely, and you can't figure out where it went.
I don't know that I will ever get used to everything dying back to nothing in winter. I have to mark everything so that I have some idea what is supposed to be where, maybe, if it makes it through.
And I do long for the familiar. Sounds odd, but I miss the Santa Ana winds in fall. And I do seriously miss Eucalyptus trees. And mockingbirds. Here there are bald eagles and golden eagles, and there are hawks living in my forest. And owls. And the silly turkeys. But no mockingbirds.
I enjoy my peace and quiet- most of the time it is so quiet here you can hear a pin drop, but it would be nice to have it easy, as you said, to do what I KNOW will work, and actually have it work. To just plant something and not have to barricade it above and below ground just so it has a chance.
On the quiet note- did you ever notice that you can hear a crow fly overhead because their wings make noise? Other birds, no, but you can hear crows. I never knew that.
Thank you for sharing with me.