I had a friend whose husband used to call me the plant enabler.. I've just narrowed my focus some..
On the other hand, I have a friend whose micro-climate is fairly frost free. She can grow some of the things that would freeze at my house... I've brought her some cool trees, and other garden goodies, just so I can get my horticultural thrills... After seeing all the Iris pictures I post on FB, she's decided that she needs more Iris.
It's my proudest moment