My husband would prefer that I were a little less enthusiastic about my Irises -- but his concern is for my ability (or lack of it) to take care of it all. This year has proven his concern valid.
But during bloom season, I see him walking the beds every day -- checking on the new blooms. And once in awhile he'll remark on one or two. And I know that he brags to his buddies about my Iris beds -- because their wives want to come and see them!!