I did talk to her recently. Its careful though, we just check in and chat, much about family stuff because she had 4 boys and EX was the oldest so, we kind of helped 'raise' the younger ones. The marriage ended when he and one of our mutual friends conceived so there are 'boundaries' we observe. I'll tell you though, having to divorce from a 'family' that I love(d) so much was harder than the rest.
Those service berries ARE spectacular! I have never seen them that colorful before. I know there are many varieties, I wonder how much soil PH has to do with that?