Lin, they ARE so beautiful! They are one of the prettiest birds I've ever seen I think. We had a pair coming to our yard for several years. Actually, one day I was outside & suddenly this bird swooped down & landed on the top of the wall right next to me & sat there looking at me! That long beak was almost in my face & it sort of took me aback. People in the area were feeding them & we put out peanuts after that too. They kind of took to our place & when the peanuts were gone the male would sit on the back of a chair on the back porch (where we could see through the sliding glass) & scream to wake the dead! He was demanding more peanuts!
He would actually land on us anytime we were outside. If we laid in the sun he (& she) would land on our back or feet or head --- you just never knew. Our dog, an Aussie, got totally used to them & they paid her no never mind. Her water bowl sat right by the slider & even though we had 2 birdbaths the Scrub Jays preferred to bathe in the dogs bowl. Scream to high heaven all the while they bathed!
BUT they would completely trash the slider (not to mention the dogs water). I would go out, clean the slider, wash & refill the dog bowl & 5 minutes later the Scrub Jays would be back trashing everything again. It was a riot when they were breeding. The female demanded to be fed by HIM always. And she would B&%$# at him!!!!!! He had the look of a harassed male for sure.
It was so funny! She would sit there with a perfect spiral in her belly feathers from sitting on the eggs. He worked his tail feathers off providing food when nesting season was going on. I could actually see him losing weight.
Then the Blue Jays moved in & the two Jay factions fought it out for about 2 years with the result of the Scrub Jays moving out leaving the territory for the Blues.