I guess I somehow thought then that I could get along with everyone,but, it's true, I'm not a communal person either. Compound, yes. I would like to do a family compound..my BIL and SIL, their daughter and her kids,our son....I suppose the daughter's new husband would come with the deal, but he's a drummer, so we'd have to see about that...lol. We have room here to build, or whatever, but I think we all want to leave for somewhere else anyway. They're in Sonora now.