Well, I looked more closely and the picture from the web site shows a GREEN stigma and my lily has a grayish violet stigma. I went out and looked again and there was nothing (like pollen) covering the stigma. I think that should settle it. Also, the B&D photo shows the sepals in particular to be much more wavey.
I'm sure my neighbors think I am crazy. I am always going out there and looking at stuff like some kind of a nut case. And sometimes I go out and look at the same thing several times because I'm always thinking of some other detail to examine.