I was once frustrated that my wife wasn't into gardening. I wanted to do it together and date the fun. I posted a question on here. Members states that it is ok. My wife probably has different ideas about how the garden should be. I would not have the freedom I do. She is however slowly getting some more interest. She loves cooking with what I grow. She just now after ten years she will go out and harvest.
As far as landscaping I have a more rustic style and she likes it organized and near. Everything labeled and in its place. My style is more permaculture should we say.
But we have come to a happy compromise.