I think our childhood's good, fair or bad make us who we are. I like to treat everybody the way I want to be treated, fairly and honestly. I occasionaly like to sit down to dinner and have a little something to drink. I don't drive if I've had even one small glass of wine and can't not understand the concept of going out on Friday night and getting plastered and "having fun". MY thoughts are if what you are planning to do for fun can only be done drunk, than it must not be fun to do in the first place. And I can't see doing anything that requires getting drunk first.