ya'll are the best
I do not like research, so I'm sooo happy and thankful for those of you who do.
The tree is about 12-15 feet tall. blooms are small and in clusters. It does get fruit...small and dark purple/black. I keep a pad listing all the pics I've added to the DB (all from my yard as of right now) and have put a note to "shoot" the leaves again and also the fruit. Will star this thread for future. I'm kinda leaning towards umbellata because of the fruit pictured in the many links provided.
Go figure...when I looked again this morning I spotted another something blooming in the same "mess of a jungle". So soon you'll have something else to chew on
Again thank you all for the time and links