I'm still in limbo too. I don't really see the harm in leaving my request. I hope at some point the admin (Rosalinda?) will have a chance to review the pending requests.
Not a FB person either. Deactivated my account shortly after college, back in 2007.
@kabby do you have any advice on how to find quality plant groups? I've never really done the FB groups thing. The hosta co-op was my first attempt at a group. I do enjoy trading with fellow NGA members.