Thank you all for all the help here!!
Janet, ya know, that was another thing I was looking at, my plant doesn't seem hairy at all. I just went out and looked again, not very hairy. The top of the leaves have a sandpapery feel. The bottom more smooth.
This is the opposite side of the leaves (may need to get a clearer pic, though).
but it's part of the reason I was having such a hard time figuring this one out from the start. Here's the stem. it has very little hair.