I have the same problem, Mary. Being lazy and wanting Dave to make my life easier!
I've gotten around it by making some minor change to my list, then I can go back to the er, list of lists, and find my own name more readily. I was just wishing we could sort the "list of lists" alphabetically, but I like your idea of having a "view my list" button better than that! Of course, BOTH would be nice too.....