@JB I am so happy you posted those questions. You said everything that I was thinking and said it very well. I was so confused that I just sat back and waited hoping the a beam of divine light would shine on my brain to help me understand the whole 'team' thing. I get it now.
I was always picked last on any school teams, but if we are just gonna be silly and make light of things, now THAT is something I can participate in. [My daughter would correct my grammar and make me write ...'something in which I can participate'...but she's busy cooking dinner and can't see what I am typing.]
Do I get to shake the pom poms now?