Oh, I so agree, Neal! Life is short, you can only spend it once so why live in a gray world? I try to conform but it is soooo difficult sometimes. The best compliment I think I have ever received was from my daughter-in-law. Some of my son's friends had been to my house and later that evening when out to dinner (I did not go with them) the friends asked my DIL 'so, is your MIL a hippy?' she hesitated then said 'no, but she is a free spirit'. I love it.
