Very windy!
There are some high bud count daylilies that stand up fine.
Some that come to mind.
Pink Ambrosia 36 buds this year
Painted Palace 30+ buds
Tuscawilla Tigress 38 buds!
Heavenly Dragon Fire lots of buds.
And one of my toothy seedlings which has had 44 buds and it is 40 inches tall.
Most of the spiders with lots of buds don't stand up.