@bigbill thanks for the note, I water almost every day and have felt daily would be better for them, they are responding better to the warmer days lately but it had been going down to 55 at night regularly.
@Ursula I've occasionally sprayed other orchid buds with clear water to remove the sweet sap in hopes to fend off various bugs but was always afraid I might be harming the buds, your comment is helpful, thanks.
Guess I'll just have to enjoy the cupped flowers this go round. It's not their habit, this actual orchid was in the orchid display at Longwood Gardens in 2017 and the flower was flat there.