Lynda, your pine removal post reminds me of this: my neighbor has a banksia rose right on the other side of the fence that I hate hate hate because it's so crowded on his side with other shrubs that it grows over the fence onto mine, blocks light, gets in my way, I'm constantly having to cut it back and it blooms for a measly two weeks a year without even attracting bees during that time. Last week I made a calm, reasoned argument why it would be best for both of us for it to go. He agreed! "It could come out." I'm doing a mental happy dance when he adds, "but I don't really care, so if you want to remove it, be my guest."
Don't know whether it's a candidate for "Happiness is..." or "Grumpy"