Ok now I have a confession to make, I too became concerned when I read some of the posts on Gramps.
I even went so far as to look up the place where he lived and figured out how to get there from here.
Last fall I took a trip and was actually in the small town in western Colorado where he lives, believe me it is the back of the beyond.
Then I lost my nerve and I failed to go to the library, police station or whatever to try to locate him. I have felt soooooo bad,
Perhaps I will make another trip but I find I cannot comfortably drive long distances anymore.
What do we say about lost opportunities and letting self-consciousness get in the way.