farmerbell said: Do I divide it as soon as it quits blooming or do I let it make a big clump. As a first year seedling the bud count isn't very good.
IMHO, first year seedlings you do not divide because you really want it to be established to see what it will do the second year.
Here is what we do (or try to do) Once we decide to keep a seedling the first year it either stays where it is or gets moved to a keeper bed. A lot of times our first year seedlings will be a clump by the end of the season but we leave them in a clump so we can get a good idea how the plant habit, etc will be on it the following season. Second year, if it gets deemed as a definite keeper then at the end of the season when it gets moved to it's permanent location or even if it stays where it is then it will be divided some to see if it will survive; some daylilies do not like to be divided and will just up and die when they are. Then if it survives and makes it through the third year then at the end of the season it will get divided into single or double fans and be ready to get registered and introduced.
I have seen the "divide and see if it dies" step skipped they just wait until the end of the third season and divide into SF or DF. But I have heard of this being done and the plant gets registered and then it all dies. So then you have a non-exsistant, registered plant. I'm sure this doesn't happen all too often, but it does happen.
If you are in a colder zone where plants don't bloom first or second year or they don't increase fast then it adds more years to this of course.
I wouldn't worry about it not liking the pollen, it will probably love it next year!! Out of half of my bloomed seedlings I would say half have set pods and half have not. I think it depends on the maturity of the plant if it will set or not plus where it's wanting to put it's energy. Even if all the seedlings are the same age they may not be at the same maturity level. I have some of my seedlings putting their energy into increasing and NOT sending up a scape much less a bloom
If you are really wanting it to set this year though I would put some dip pollen on it (if you have a dip) to get it in the mood. This usually works if we have a plant that isn't wanting to set pods.