Maybe we should start a thread for "happy" people. I have been in those fights also, and I am far from proud of it but some people just keep pulling your chain until it starts to hurt, if they continue to do it after being told not to, then I can get really nasty, and I am not proud of that either.
I have never seen or been in an argument on ATP from day one. I think it is because the people here have not only respect for others but themselves also. I find if I am considerate , kind and respectful to others it pays off. But, when someone with an ATTITUDE comes after me more than once, I can be one mean old lady and then I hate myself for being so out of character.
I also think many of the people who start those fights are very jealous, miserable, and unhappy in their lives or maybe even not well in some way. Usually if I am in a cranky mood, I will not even come on these threads or any other for that matter because I do not want to say anything that someone would take in the wrong way. I have had an experience not too long ago with someone talking "down" to me and that is difficult for an older person to be talked to like they were a child. Needless to say, I had my say on that one.
Now tell me, what does all this have to do with spider plants? I apologize for getting off on another subject.
If i start a Happy People thread in the sandbox will you all come and talk to me?