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Dec 19, 2014 10:59 PM CST
Name: Jan Wax
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Marilyn, Mom has been an invalid for the last year.... in bed, on oxygen. We knew she was going.
She had COPD (my stepfather smoked 2 packs of Camels every day...in the house, in the car...for 40 years. I think second-hand smoke can cause breathing problems. He died of emphysema. ) - and for the past year
her heart function was less than 20%. She'd become quite deaf too, and often said she was ready to go. No dementia, however.
Yes, she will be greatly missed, is missed, by many people.

Mary Ann, I know you must cherish the time your Mom has left. 93 is also a long time to live. Wishing you both well.

Tom, any news?
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Dec 19, 2014 11:26 PM CST
Name: Lucy
Tri Cities, WA (Zone 6b)
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So sorry tom. Falling is one of my fears & I am not near 90.

Jan--2nd hand smoke did not help my asthma. I have been away from it for 40 years which does help.
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Dec 20, 2014 4:56 AM CST
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Name: Tom
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No news yet. Jan so sorry to hear about your mother. You were so nice to be taking care of her so she could be with you at the end. Group hug
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Dec 20, 2014 8:13 AM CST
Name: Arlyn
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Dec 20, 2014 10:31 AM CST
Name: Jan Wax
Mendocino County, N. CA (Zone 9a)
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Thanks everyone. Chris and I are off to the Bay Area to visit his parents who are 90 and 95.
As I said, it's that time in our lives.
Hoping for the best for your aunt, Tom.
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Dec 20, 2014 12:19 PM CST
Name: Mary Ann
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Have a safe trip, Jan.
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Dec 21, 2014 2:15 AM CST
Name: Barbara
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Tom, I wish the best for your aunt, Jan, I'm so sorry for your loss, and Rob, I hope your mom and brother-in-law are getting better.
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Dec 21, 2014 3:44 AM CST
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Jan, I'm so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family. Group hug

Tom, I'm so sorry about your Aunt, may she make a full recovery. Group hug

Thank you Barbara!
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Dec 21, 2014 9:31 AM CST
Name: Pam
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Jan Our condolences on the loss of your Mom.

Tom Sending thoughts of healing and peace for your aunt.

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Dec 21, 2014 7:43 PM CST
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I just got word that my aunt died about an hour ago. Her birthday would have been on Christmas eve.
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Dec 21, 2014 8:18 PM CST
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Dec 21, 2014 8:24 PM CST
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Dec 21, 2014 9:28 PM CST
Name: Marilyn
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Dec 21, 2014 9:45 PM CST
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I'm so sorry Tom... Sad

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Dec 21, 2014 10:26 PM CST
Name: Mary Ann
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Aww Tom -- I'm sorry. Will you be going to the funeral?
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Dec 21, 2014 10:56 PM CST
Name: Lucy
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It is tough to lose family members especially around the holiday. so sorry.
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Dec 21, 2014 11:54 PM CST
Name: Jan Wax
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Oh Tom, I'm so sorry. Hugs.

Thanks, everyone, for all the condolences. I really appreciate the kind thoughts.
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Dec 22, 2014 3:57 AM CST
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I haven't heard when the funeral is yet, but yes I will be going.
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Dec 22, 2014 7:48 AM CST
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Dec 22, 2014 8:28 AM CST
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