Yeah, I order from Mail Order Natives all the time. Which reminds me, I need to place an order! But I was really trying to find a larger tree so I could get caterpillars right away (hopefully). I would have bought the small ones if that was all I could find. I've shopped the USF Botanical Gardens plant sales for years and I'd never seen one for sale until after I bought that first one a few years ago. The Native Plant Society had one for sale at their booth but it was still only 4-5 feet tall. I was glad to see them have it for sale, though. So many of us want to "go native" whether it's for environmental reasons, aesthetic reasons, or wildlife reasons. But it can be so hard to find the plants! And I don't want to get busted for poaching plants from the preserves or parks! It can be tempting, though. Of course, that's how a lot of things ended up becoming endangered in the first place - our native orchids being over-collected is a perfect example. Plus, I hear prison isn't very nice.
I definitely let my local nurseries know that I am a butterfly gardener and that I want native plants and I want pesticide-free plants. I went to business school so I completely understand the economics they face, but that just means we have to support natives with our dollars, and convert the unconverted! That's another reason I love volunteering at MOSI. I get to talk about butterflies, but I sell people on native plants, too! We have so many people that move down here from up north and I tell them that they have to change their way of gardening. Natives are so much easier to deal with, too! You still have to do some work, but not nearly the amount you can spend on some of the plants you see in the catalogs. I learned that lesson real quick when I started gardening! The grass may look greener in the other zones, but then I remind myself I can grow bromeliads outdoors and have butterflies year-round and then I can forget all those plants in the fancy catalogs.