Don't feel bad, Elfrieda. I think almost all of us have lost seeds from our 1st pod. Here's my story: Several years ago, I was bringing my plants indoors for the winter one windy day. As I was walking down the sidewalk, I kept noticing what looked like dandelion fluff floating all around me. I then wondered why there were so many all of a sudden, and so I turned around and just happened to look down inside the box that I was transporting the plants in, and then I realized -- those were my precious DR seeds escaping. I didn't notice beforehand that my pod had split open, and I certainly did not know that the darn seeds had parachutes.
I quickly secured the pod, so that no more seeds could escape, but there were only a few left in it.
You should have seen me running around the yard trying to recapture as many of my seeds floating in the wind, as I could.
I know that if any of my neighbors were watching, they probably thought that I was nuts.