What makes them remain in the face of being ignored and blatently lied to?
Calif_Sue said:Well would you come here in a public forum and say "hey everyone, come join me at a better garden site or I went somewhere else"? It's just bad form, drawing members away from the site to somewhere else.
And don't think you are safe going to d-mail, despite claims, it's not totally private. I know from first hand experience. My subscription had lapsed a long time ago and I was conversing with someone a d-mail. She sent a link to an image from a thread for a subscriber only forum. I couldn't open it because of being a non subscriber so I told her so. In less than 24 hrs I had a notice of a gift subscription. I assumed the person I was talking to paid for it. As soon as I asked her, she switched to our private emails, we were both upset. And no one can convince me it was just a coincidence, timers have been flying around for a while.