Thanks for all the advice, it really helped!
I wiped the under-leaves today in the morning and there were some tiiiiny little dots on the paper towel. With a magnifying glass I could see them moving although I couldn't notice if they had legs or not. But I am kind of blind too. Not like you Cyra, bit I can't see a lot of small things even with my glasses on (which I wear 18 hours a day anyway). So mostly sure these are the spider mites, aren't they? So now: Neem oil is the solution?
Could they kill my plumie?
Could she drop the other buds not opened yet?
She didn't grow anymore leaves since they started with the yellowing. She was pushing leaves out like crazy in the beginning. I am soooo upset! How could she get those?I know we have lots of rose bushes and other plants on the alleys which are close to our patio too, but they seem well, spider mites seem to be attacking only my plumeria. Now I hope they won't get on my cycads too.
And above all these, I just got 2 rooted cuttings from a grower who was rooting them for me for quite a while (one of them was a gift from her, and there is still one rooting at her nursery). I should keep those 2 at a distance from the Aztec Gold right? The gift/free cutting doesn't look that good though, it has a strange color of the stem and although it's not squishy now, I think it's going to be soon.
Here are some pics of the yellowing leaves taken this morning:
And the bloom with the other buds that seem to have stopped growing:
Here is the new cutting received a few days ago:
Pic taken when they arrived:
And other pic taken today:
She's a Keiki Lavender so the claws should be darker if I understood right. No signs of new claws yet but they don't even have a week since they were potted.
Thank you all for watching, and for all and any advice.