Full length mirrors ladies....full length mirrors. I own 2 for a reason and it isn't because I think I'm too cute. .
I gave up on padding/padded anything a long time ago. It always does something you don't naturally and pops up or out when you don't want it too.
As for lacy anything well I save it to wear under my special occasion dress up outfits providing the clothes don't require NVPL panties. Still wear colors and pretty stuff just nothing particularly glamorous like I did in my 20s and 30s. At my age it is pretty hard to find a 34 Long at Fredrick's of Hollywood or Victoria's Secret.
Lucky me. I found a husband that thinks my Hanes Her Way undies and his XL t-shirt are far more sexy than lingerie.
That outfit, clean hair and me NOT eating a bag of chips on the couch is as sexy as I get now days.
And OMG Rosie, that poor, poor pregnant woman.
I feel her pain.
Deliberately or unintentionally guys are so clueless. Must be something in their DNA.
For those moms and grand moms of young boys these stories should make good teaching tools.