Ok, then I will just try my best to pull out what I do not want. It is SO frustrating not being able to grip to weed and pull stuff out! Some days I can, but some days... Well...
I do use gloves with gripping things on them and that helps some.
But, darn it - I refuse to give up!
I used to grow monarda on a hill where it really struggled. Now, it is in a much smaller bed, with improved soil, and mixed perennials. This was it's second summer. It has really taken off! Hummingbirds have loved it!