Thanks for the support re the weeds. I also wondered if that woman was seeing perennials that had not bloomed yet and didn't know what they were. Anyway, after someone at the Hosta Society told a tale about a woman who sued her after a garden tour, I decided that with all the snakes, holes in the lawns, and other things, it wasn't worth letting strangers come tour.
It seems this woman brought her daughter on the tour, and she was told repeatedly to leave the hostess' cat alone, that it wasn't kid friendly. The cat scratched the girl, they let the scratch get infected, and sued the hostess for the $800 emergency room bill when they took the girl to the Dr. This was related during discussion to purchase extra insurance for the Society to cover our special events.
Liz ' Love Affair' is now on my list.