I like Mendocino Maples, most of mine came from them:
https://mendocinomaples.com/
And Mr. Maple. I haven't personally ordered from them but people on this website like them quite a bit and Mr. Maple might be closer to you:
https://mrmaple.com/
I would look for JMs in 1 gallon pots because they are cheaper and smaller trees acclimate better and grow faster (because they acclimate better
). I would avoid trees from the BigBox stores as the grafts aren't set or healed well. You could easily pay a lot for a tree that dies in a couple years.
There are 4 maples commonly put into the bigger tub known as Japanese maples:
1. Acer circinatum, Vine Maple, is native to the north western US and Canada. Even though its listed with Japanese maples, obviously its not. I have 'Sunglow' planted in my yard. In the ground after about 7 years its about 3 ft tall. Its a very cute tree.
2. The one on the left is a 35 year old standard Acer palmatum is a 3 gallon pot. The one on the left is Acer palmatum 'Peaches and Cream', 25 years old.
3. and 4. This one is an Acer shirasawanum or Fullmoon Maple. Its about 7 years old. A. shirasawanum and A. japonicum are very similar in appearance and are both know as fullmoon maples. The main difference is A. japonicum has furry stems.
Hope this helps.