Thanks for the suggestions guys,
I actually have this silver fittonia already that's about 4.5" tall,
It's been having new growth lately but the adult leaves look like they'd like more humidity, they are kind of folded at the tips (not dry or brown though, its been like that for a month since I got it...so weird...I kept moving and replanting it to figure out it's needs so maybe its stressed ha ha) - if I don't come up with a better idea I'll make the vase its home.
But then I expect it to have its new leaves to develop unfolded and to grow to almost 9", eventually - do you think that'll happen or is that too much to expect of this plant?